Andreas likened our days thus far to the movie, Groundhog Day and he is absolutely correct. We pretty much do the same thing day in and day out with slight variations here and there, but pretty much the same thing. Even the time with the boys is a rerun of the day before. Yesterday we did mix it up a bit, yay, we explored downtown Dnipro and had a great time. In fact, we met an Iranian gentleman that spent the day with us showing us the city. When we went went to see the boys today the first thing they asked why we "no show" yesterday. I thought they understood we were not going to see them that day, but once again things were lost in translation. They then told us they had stood by the window waiting for us all afternoon and yes, just so you all know, we did feel TERRIBLE when we heard this, Ruslan then said, "please don't no come again." We will for sure try.
They are anxious to leave the sanatorium and continually ask when we will ALL be going home. Ruslan hopes he will be home for his birthday on December 27, I told him for sure we would be, we better. We told them today that David would be leaving next week and afterwards they seemed to cling to him just a little bit more for the rest of the day. I think if they had their choice they would rather me go home instead, they have both really bonded with him. I think it's because he is big softy, he will do anything for them...they truly have him wrapped around their little fingers.
Some of you have asked why the boys are in the sanatorium. Well, a few weeks back they received their TB shots, and as I have mentioned in earlier posts they have more freedom and better food at the sanatorium, so they scratched the shot area to make it look infected so they would be sent there, clever. The sanatorium is like a HUGE doctors office, but I haven't seen one really sick child yet and I want to keep it that way, because what I see already is sad enough.
We go to court on the 18th, Monday. We still haven't received our Interpol clearance yet, but we did receive our clearance from social services and they sent there recommendation for adoption to the SDA (State Department of Adoptions). We are getting closer and closer, so if all goes well we will be in court Monday and David will return home Thursday, the 21st. Oh please, oh please, oh please. After court our 10 day waiting period will begin, this is to see if any family member(s) will come forward and deny our petition to adopt. Translator Oksana doesn't quite know what happens after the 10 days, and we are a bit unclear also. Facilitator Oksana is in Kyiv, so we are not able to ask her at the moment, we'll just have to wait and see what happens next. It's all one big roller coaster ride, some days we are high and other days we are low and then there are days we want to get off and go home.
I know we have said this already and we will continue to do so. We so appreciate your comments, love and prayers. It's nice to know we have such a huge cheering section cheering us on. Loves and kisses.
This is a friend of the boys, it was his 14th birthday today. The boys picked out Coca Cola and a Snickers candy bar for his present. He is such a quiet, kind young man, too adorable.
This is usually how we walk anywhere, the boys holding David's hands and me trying to catch up.
Garbage pick up? Good luck. Every so often they'll burn it. Or at least they did when we were there. It will smell to high heaven!
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Very smart boys to scratch their TB spots. Clever.
So, if I remember correctly, after the ten days you can take them out of the orphanage and then you go to the city of their births for birth certificates and something similar to a social security card. You will need to do photo's in the region for their passports and very carefully sign you name in a square that you cannot touch with ink. Now is the part that's fuzzy to me. You wait IN the region for the passports and then take them to Kiev and get their medical appointments done and then on to the embassy for visa's. The time frame on this is where I'm super fuzzy. Anyone else dare to take a guess?
What day is Dave's flight home? I know he'll have to sign some power of attorneys before he leaves and stop in for some paper work at the embassy.
That 14 year old boy is darling!! So many cute kids. Breaks my heart.
Love how the boys are bonding with each other and you both! You just wait until they've got mama all to themselves. (And you've got them scrubbed and looking like cared for son's and not sad uncared for orphans.)
Do they go to school at all in the Sanatorium? Seem's like it would be hard to keep you grades up sitting in a "doctor's office" for weeks on end. Very odd.
Well, I am probably the longest winded commenter you have. Sorry. You are in our prayers!
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Thanks for the clarification about the sanatorium. Those pictures are great. I love the one where they are arm in arm. How many more of those boys in the picture are you thinking about adopting? Maybe not in reality, but at least in your heart? They are all beautiful kids. Pictures like that break my heart. So many kids who need homes. Your boys are so blessed to be getting out of that place.
ReplyDeleteThanks for keeping us all updated. God bless you all.
Wow... I have loved reading this and keeping up with the adventures. I have had a tear or two for you and I am sending my prayers your way. Can you find a little girl for me and bring her back with you. You are amazing. Love you lots, Heather
ReplyDeleteI thought you were going to cry to get the 10 days waived!!!!Ha Ha It takes about a week after the 10 days to get everything else done. They do eventually pick up the garbage. The grass or weeds look greeener than they did a couple of months ago. Benson's tb test was positive. They say alot of kids have positive test. We will know this week if Benson has to start the 6 months of medicine for the positive test he had here.
ReplyDeleteThey picked up the garbage? We never saw a garbage truck the whole time we were there. They did burn it or maybe it was the plastic bottles. Some little old babushka just went out and lit the whole thing on fire. It was very stinky. Maybe she's no longer around?
ReplyDeleteOh....the saga of the garbage......please keep us posted!
I'm eager to read your postings, so interesting to keep up on your daily activities/updates. Love the pictures. so happy for you. so proud of you. love you.
ReplyDeleteIt is fun to read you and you sem very positive. I love your pix. The children are so beautiful. Hang in there! All will work out! And yes, your bys are very clever! Tell them to keep on scratching that TB shot! I don't think I would have come up with it by myself nad I love it!
ReplyDeleteThe friend who you gave the presents too is Vitaliy's best friend Oleg. He says that he is sure and he really looks like him. Talk to him and see if he wants to go to America. Vitaly says that he has a grandma who will jump off a building if he leaves and so he doesn't want to leave but he is a very good boy and I would love to see him adopted. Do try to get the 10 days waived. It can be done and since you don't have a ton of issues like we did, I would ask the judge yourself if he can waive it. We love your pictures and it is fun to see Dnipro (from the comfort of home :)
ReplyDeleteYes, it is possible to get the ten days waived, because we did it. Court date on the 21st, home on December 24th. It's rare, but it's possible. Ask the judge yourself. Your facilitator probably won't. They think it makes them look bad to the judge. We're having fun reading your adventure. It's so cute the way the boys have bonded to each other. I don't think they were even friends when we were there. Now they're brothers.
ReplyDeleteThanks so much for sharing these stories each day. I love to read them and ponder about the Moores. We keep sending prayers; and it seems that you're receiving them. Love from the Gardners.
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